Friday, November 8, 2013

A few of my favorite (Austin) things

Dear Austin-

It’s crazy to think four years ago, I was in a similar place back in Orange County.  I embraced the situation and the timing.  I knew something better was on the horizon.  Never did I think it’d be you.  But, I’ve got to say, it’s been an incredible chapter in my journey.   You’ll always have a fond place in my heart and life… and there are so many moments, places and people that I know shaped who I’ve grown to be since our relationship started.  Someone asked me before I left what would be the top five things I would miss most about Austin.  Without further ado…

1.  Town Lake Running trail – never would I have dreamed a dirt trail would provide me so much solace, perspective, happiness and tight IT bands!!  From the moment of awe as I’d cross the pedestrian bridge and see the skyline, to running beneath the tree canopy just past the rowing dock.  Thank you for welcoming both me and my new best friend… and bringing her more joy and happiness.  Without you, she would have never learned…”Keep, right!  Keep RIGHT!  No squirrels!”

2.  There’s only one City in this world where you could see Willie Nelson, Run DMC, Dave Matthews, Green Day, Kendrick Lamar, The XX, Eddie Vedder, Ice Cube and Stevie Wonder all a year – I’m going to miss this about you, Austin.  Your ability to provide live music is directly proportional to the A.D.D. of my musical interests. 

3.  The eclectic-ness of your people is refreshing.  A sense of acceptance of all humanity exudes from your people.  Where else do you get to put all of the most conservativea politicians in the most liberal city in the state… and they get to mingle with pro-choice people, the LGBT community, and a thong wearing bicyclist, artists, musicians and beer bonging co-eds?  Everyone co-exists.  It’s possible people… it really is!

4.  The food.  My god…. The food!!  Before I left Michigan, I’d never eaten a Brussels sprout… now, I can tell you at least three places with bomb.ass Brussels.  My palate and perspective has changed because of the creative culinar-ies roaming these streets. 

5.  The acceptance of (wo)man’s best friend is something truly remarkable about Austin.  It didn’t much matter until Big Whiskey found me… but in a community occupied by a lot of very hard working, single folks… it actually means something that you can leave work late, pick up your pup and still get to meet your friends for drinks.  Everyone gets attention, everyone gets love – everyone is happy.  It seems weird to me that dogs aren’t allowed on ANY patio.  Who’s making these rules?? 

While, I’m writing about my time in Austin… and what I’m taking away from my time there, I think it’s prudent to highlight express gratitude for the a few of those who shaped me in my time in Austin.   

1.  To those really wealthy folks who I nannied for when I first arrived – thank you for showing how being out of line with your personal values will directly effect your internal happiness.  While I never understood your wastefulness of money, material items, and god-given gifts – I’m forever grateful for putting this into perspective for me.  I’m also very grateful for the beautiful handbags that were “trash” to you.

2.  To my first Internet girl friend – I don’t even know where to begin.  Thank you for being the sister I’d always wanted.  For accepting me, as I was.  For being the one I could tell my ridiculous stories to… and who wouldn’t think less of me.  Thank you for helping me train for the Austin Marathon… and running me to the finish line when I didn’t think I’d do it fast enough on my own.  Thank you for my nieces and the joy they bring to me…and who else get’s an “Auntie America” Thank you for holidays, dinners, Boxing Days and letting me be cheeky…Because… I’m definitely a cheeky little bender. 

3.  To the tall, handsome guy with a fancy title in a badass industry – thank you for accepting my random invitation to get coffee so I could hear your story.  My time in Austin forever changed when we agreed to be friends after that coffee.  Thank you for showing me true, authentic, non-judgmental, easy, fun friendship.  So many of my favorite memories include you – I know that our paths were meant to cross, because I can’t imagine my life without you in it – it’s like you’ve always been there.  

4.  To the other tall, handsome guy – thank you for keeping me in check.  For knowing what to say…and when to say it.  Thank you for your honesty, and pushing me to pursue my happiness.  Thank you for your amazing hugs.  Thank you for telling me, “people like us don’t set the bar…we are the bar!”  We’re going to do amazing things; kid… and I wouldn’t be about to do what I am without your support and encouragement.

5.  To my business partners…thank you for your friendship, inspiration, perfect timing and believing in me.  We’re gonna rock this.

6.  To all of Kitty City – thank you for being you.  We’re a motley crew of folks, but we’re neighbors turned friends.  Thank you for being there for me in the last year… when things were bad… you were the net to catch me, to pick me up.  Thank you for friendship, your amazing wine drinking abilities, your sense of community and taking care of me and my fur babies. 

7.  To my favorite mid-westie.  Thank you for all things casseroles.  For being my live music, traveling, happy houring, crawling under trains…partner-in-crime.  I appreciate your drive, to be more, do more – and the collaborative thoughts you bring to the table.  Thank you for caring for me and laughing with me. 

8.  To the one person I can tolerate being predictably late…all…of…the…time, there’s a reason we were both in nearly the same thing at the same time.  Thank you for relating, for inspiring, for listening and being honest with me.  Sunshine Market’s sales will surely go down now that we’re not tag-teaming the wine aisle.  There’s few people who could pull off walking into a sold out Pearl Jam show… you’re one of them!  Use that good fortune, to go, do and be amazing.  It’s your time to shine – I mean, what would Jeff Lewis say to you?? 

9.  To that friend I used to have, I thank you for showing me what friendship was not… so I could realize what friendship actually was. 

10.  Finally, to the person who abandoned, dropped off or lost the sweetest, cutest, most loving puppy dog – thank you for knowing that she’d find her way to a person who would love her more than she could have ever imagined.  That puppy has changed my idea of love, friendship, happiness and acceptance.  I’m a better person because she’s in my life. 

It’s been a crazy, wild, amazing adventure here in Austin.  I’ll forever be grateful for my time here, the shows, festivals, nights on 6th Street and Rainey, the food, sunshine, the memories, the laughter and the growth.  You’re part of my story Austin… and I’m so glad that I get to brag about that time I lived in this amazing little city! 

Much love,

Anna